Grant and Feng’s Wedding

Posted in personal, wedding at 11:48 pm by wingerz


The big weddings keep on coming; this weekend it was Grant and Feng’s turn. They were married outdoors on a beautiful summer afternoon, and the evening celebration flew by.

Many years ago, when we were about to move into 21r, AJ described Grant to me as a funny guy – not in the stand-up sense, but more in his mannerisms. It didn’t take long for me to understand what he meant. Grant exhibits great exuberance for the things he finds worthwhile, such as Trader Joe’s frozen mango pieces, oatmeal raisin cookies, Krispy Kreme Donuts (noticing a trend?), the New Tetris, basketball (playing, watching, video gaming), applying optimizations to all parts of his life, and, of course, Feng.


In addition to being a constant source of wacky amusement, Grant has been a great roommate and friend. He’s been incredibly supportive. After one exhausting weekend, I passed out on our couch and woke up to find that he had cooked me a tasty stir-fry dinner. This is especially touching coming from a guy who once hoped to live on Mac&Cheese because it was 5 for $1.

Feng is a go-getter, as evidenced by their courtship. She also introduced me to almond macaroons from Mike’s Pastry, my favorite cookies. Last summer we took an awesome road trip up to Montreal for Matt & Amy’s wedding.


Together, they make a fantastic couple that we’ve missed hanging out with over the past two years. It’s been fun watching their relationship grow, and I sort of miss their lighthearted bickering, when Feng feigns (?) embarrassment at something he’s done or said. In any case, she’s cleaned him up a bit from the good ol’ days of 21r, where shirts and good fashion sense were optional.

Unfortunately for Grant, no blog post of this sort would be complete without the best picture I’ve ever taken of him. This was back in the days when I shot 640×480 photos with my first digital camera.



  1. Grant said,

    August 5, 2008 at 11:52 pm

    Oh man, you are so awesome for thinking about the one nice thing I’ve ever done for you.

    I miss that hat so bad.

    Thanks for the touching post.

  2. feng said,

    August 6, 2008 at 12:13 am

    awww… how sweet.

  3. AJ said,

    August 6, 2008 at 11:27 pm

    Great post. And… Reggae Fever!! Awesome

  4. wingerz said,

    August 6, 2008 at 11:51 pm


  5. joy said,

    August 7, 2008 at 7:09 pm

    TJ frozen mango pieces are *awesome*. :)

    congratulations, grant & feng!!!

    (and wing, more photos please!)

  6. Jen said,

    August 7, 2008 at 11:02 pm

    grant also made him oatmeal cookies once. :)

  7. brian said,

    August 9, 2008 at 3:22 pm

    grant once tried to exlpain his thesis to me. that was pretty nice.

  8. ~wingerz » Ellen and Will's Wedding said,

    September 1, 2008 at 10:32 pm

    […] week after going to Palo Alto for Feng and Grant’s wedding, it was off to New York to celebrate with Ellen and […]

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